I decided to interview my sister's boyfriend, his name is Mike Goolsby. The reason I choose to interview is how interesting of a life he has lived up to this point. Mike was a infantry man and was deployed in Afghanistan. He was honorably discharged after being hit by a road side bomb and still struggles with post traumatic stress disorder in his everyday life. Mike grew up in Texas on a military base, then moved to Alabama, and finally ended up in New Jersey. He attended Rutgers University Business School and graduated with a degree in finance. After, college he received a job offer from Bloomberg to be a financial analyst.
Introduction was brief with nothing noteworthy, just quickly chatted about present events like the Superbowl and Donald Trump.
Zach: What was it like growing up on a military base and what was the name?
Mike: The name of the military base was Fort Hood. Fort Hood was like a big town, but everybody worked on the military base. My Dad and Mother were both in the military so for me it was almost a right of passage to join. I kind of just felt like it was my duty seeing that my parents did it, living on the base made me realize at a young age that I was going to join the army.
Zach: What did being in the Army teach you?
Mike: The army really taught me how to be a leader. I lead my squad in Afghanistan, I need my fellow soldiers to be confident in my decision making. I have led people in situations where lives were at stake so now it is easy for me lead in everyday situations. Also the army taught me self-discipline, always pushing myself to get up in the morning or little situations each day.
Zach: Was it hard dealing with symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder?
Mike: Yes it was. At times it would definitely get on my nerves and bother me. I have definitely gotten by PTSD for the most part, but I often at times will have trouble with loud noises or surprises.
Zach: Were you injured from the bomb?
Mike: I made out very lucky, a lot luckier then some of the people with me. I was around the wall so fortunately I escaped with bruises and scrapes, but completely blew out my eardrums. The force of the bomb sent me to the ground and my ears were bleeding. I blacked out for a short period and remember waking up to another person in my platoon asking me if I was okay.
Zach: Did you enjoy your time at Rutgers and did you find it hard?
Mike: Rutgers was a great experience for me and was a lot harder then basic training (sarcastic tone). I like to think I have a good work ethic and refuse to let anything beat me so despite Rutgers being hard I always seem to overcome.
Zach: Was it different being older then most of your fellow students due to serving first?
Mike: It was a bit different, but everybody treated me the same. I am definitely a lot older then your average student, but I feel as if that was to my benefit. Being older I already knew who I was and what I wanted to do in life. I feel as if younger people are still trying to figure themselves out when I had plenty of time to do that already.
In closing I wish I could go into further detail about some of the stories Mike has told me because they are extremely interesting. I personally find Mike and his military experiences to be kind of eye opening and makes me really appreciate further who serves.
Hi Zachary,
ReplyDeleteMy uncle has post traumatic stress disorder and I have heard stories of his struggles so I understand partially what Mike went through. Bloomberg is a great company, that is impressive he was able to find a job like that right off the bat. The fact that he lived in so many spots is also cool.
Very intimate and heartwarming. Like PTSD is very hard to deal with but I am glad he didn't let that stop him in setting his goals for a better future after the Military. I also like how you gave thanks for those who offer their service to this country. Sometimes we forget what we should be thankful for.
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